Hey Tweeties! Today, I am answering all of your steamy sex and relationship questions! Me, my besties Rachel and Destin and my hot assistant Patia are hosting a chat party on Twitter and are ready for a big Q&A love fest. The hashtag of choice? #AskPatti. You don’t want to miss it!
You can start submitting questions now by commenting here or head straight to my twitter and I will answer them, chat with you and give advice. So, be sure to say what’s on your mind. Plus, you may catch your tweeted question on the upcoming season of Millionaire Matchmaker premiering in the Fall. Remember, there’s no such as a stupid question. Only sexy ones. Ready… set… Tweet! (Remember to use my Twitter handle and #AskPatti.)
Where can a 17 year old get a mature boyfriend who’s old enough to be on her mental level yet doesn’t only want to manipulate her and use her for sex?
Hello Patti,
I’m 42, African American, and never been married. I have been single now for 16 months and ready to get back in the game. After reading your story about your new BF that you met on POF, I decided to join. I have only been on for one day and I am already overwhelmed!!! I have received about 30 messages in a 24 hour period and frankly it scared me. I don’t knw where to begin and I have heard some horror stories about online dating. How do I get over this fear and answer some of these guys? I just want to find love. I wish I had my own Patti Stanger.
I am 27 and I went on a date with a guy that has been interested in me for a while. I thought that we both had a great time on the date. We have talked since the date, but I invited him to a get together and he said “maybe.” I feel a little confused at the moment as to how he feels about me. Should I just forget about the guy or give him time??
@Allie. From a guy’s point of view.. He might feel a little awkward in new social situations in the early dates. I’ve had a few females ive gone out with want me to meet their friends right away, etc. Perhaps, try to keep it 1 on 1 till you get further.
I am a 22 year old recent grad and am wondering where you think the best place for me to find a good guy is? I am tired of dealing with players or fraternity-type guys. I want a sincere and good guy who had values and goals in life. I am a level headed girl with standards but don’t like going to bars and getting hit on to just get used. Please help!
I met a guy off of an online dating site. We went out on our first date, which went awesome. But it took him 2 days to even contact me again and ask me for a second date. We went on our second date and again it was even better, we stayed out until 5am just talking and getting to know each other. It has been 4 days and still no phone call or text from him. I know he works about 48 hours just on the weekend alone but is that an excuse not to call or text for 4+ days? When/IF he texts/calls me next week how do I approach that situation? Should I even mention it?
Patty, I have recently been hanging out and texting a friend I’ve known since high school. We even went for a weekend trip to Dallas and stayed in the same hotel room. If he happens to start getting serious and asks me out and we start dating, should I still apply the same rules as if i had not known him for the past 12 years and not have sex with him until we are more serious?
Hi Patti’
a 23 year old newlywed and I have never orgasmed. I’m on an antidepressant which might be causing thr issue, but is there anything out there to help with this problem! I love making my husband happy but I have needs too!!!
Hi Patti!
I’m a 23 year old newly wed, and no matter how hard I (or my husband) tries, I have never orgasmed. I love pleasing my husband, but I have needs too! Should I talk to my ob/gyn about this? Thanks!!
Why is it that I’m attracted to older women they always seem to draw me in I don’t like anybody my age people I usually date are 15 years older than me – 18 year old female
How and at what point do you bring up ‘no sex before monogamy’? I strongly believe in this rule, but I know I will feel so awkward when I bring it up. I hope you can help me. You’re amazing, Patti!
I was broken up with in February, and it was very difficult for me. I’ve never had a super positive self image, but I’m trying very hard. After my ex left me, I decided to start getting waxed, everything waxed, every 3 weeks. I LOVE it, but, I haven’t been able to find someone to settle down with, for even just a little bit. My ex cut me off in the bedroom in November, so its been a long time since I’ve even kissed a man, and at almost 26, I’m going crazy.
I’d love you to give me some pointers for someone my age to meet a man, who wants marriage and children. I’m kind of getting tired of the bar scene, and being from a small upstate town in New York, I feel my optioned are limited.
I need to put this wax job to good use, Patti….Please help!
Thank you in advance for you time!
Could you recommend a good place for a date in the LA area? I was thinking the Getty Museum or Griffith Park Observatory. Are those any good?
My boyfriend likes to watch porn to get aroused. When, if ever should I be worried?
My partner and I have been together for several years, and I’m no longer sexually satisfied. Are we doomed?
What is the best way to keep our sack sessions are as hot as possible?
Hi Patti,
I’m an attractive, youthful looking 45 y.o. black female, currently wearing my natural hair very short. Though it’s cute and curly and often complimented, guys give me a look, a smile and keep it moving. WTF? There’s a sexy, intelligent woman here fellows! Since I’m tired of sleeping alone, I thought I would go a little more feminine and get extensions to compliment the rest of me. Am I on the right track? Are men more attracted to long hair?
I’m a 19 year old college student and find it hard to meet guys who are interested in something more than just hooking up. I was exclusive with a guy for a couple of months but that faded out and now I’m not quite sure how best to go about seeking the next one. I’m not necessarily looking for a super-serious-get-married type of thing, more just a casual, yet exclusive, relationship with someone around my age.
Thanks again in advance!! Love you Patti!
Hi patti, im 19 and ive been dating this guy for a few months whos treated me like a princess ever since we met and is amazing all around. I do love him. but he is talking about moving in together and getting married. is it too soon? Id love to move in with him but i dont want it to ruin what we have. Also my relationship before him a year ago was abusive and I do back off a little because I get scared its gonna happen to me again. help?
I recently started talking to an x of mine but he has mention that he wants to have sex with me again..when i asked him about his gf he said they were not together anymore but that they were trying to work things out between them. I told him that i didnt want to have sex with him if he was with someone else but i really do like him. What can i do?
Patti ..Hi I live in a small town near Madison Wi..we need a match maker in our area. And I want to be a mini you! We don’t have millionaires.. but we have people who need people!! Please come and visit me in Wisconsin and lets start a business for people here who need help meeting people. I can’t Wait to hear back from you. Paula Herman